I believe that anybody can be sexy. It isn’t all about physical appearance, as many people know, but a combination of several things. If you’d like to be more attractive, there are a few things you can do to make yourself naturally sexier without making any life-changing sacrifices. Here are 8 things you can do to make yourself more attractive.
1. Smiles and Genuine Laughter
A smile is a beautiful thing, and makes a huge difference in how you come across to other people. Smile at people when you meet them. If you recieve a smile, give a happy grin. Treat people warmly and if you laugh, make it loud and happy! Spread the joy. Potential crushes will notice.
2. Have Confidence
“Easier said than done”, you might say. Many people are very shy and it can be difficult to be more confident. However, BEING confident and FEELING confident isn’t always the same thing!
Some tips for seeming more confident to other people include having great posture. Shoulders back, head up, and that gorgeous smile of yours. Another way is to adopt a positive attitude. Towards everything. Spill a glass of water? Good thing it wasn’t soda! Did an accident on the road slow down the traffic? Good thing you weren’t involved in the accident! Being positive about everything can be tough, but is a great habit to have. It brings up your confidence as well as making the people around you happier.
3. Dress Well
One of the first things people notice about you is the way you dress. Nice clothes don’t have to be expensive, either, so it’s not about wearing expensive clothing. It’s a known fact all men look better in suit shirts, and ladies, try researching what looks good for your body type. Ditch dirty shoes and scruffy shirts and make sure you look respectable. It does wonders for your image.
4. Have Well-Groomed Hair
Long hair or short, there are many things you can do to make the quality of your hair better. Well-groomed hair tells people that you take care of yourself and your personal hygiene, which is sexy.
There are some things you can do to improve your hair’s condition. These include buying and using the correct shampoo and conditioner, adopting styles that suit your face shape, not going overboard with unusual styles or colors, and keeping it trimmed and tidy. If you have facial hair, be sure to keep it clean and free of anything that might stick in there such as food.
5. Ask Questions
Conversation is part of our daily lives with communication with other human beings – we can’t avoid it. Believe it or not, there are very simple tips to being able to engage in great conversation, be interesting to others, and therefore be more attractive to interested individuals.
Ask lots of questions when you’re having a conversation. Needless to say, don’t make these questions too personal or inapproriate. Start with the basic “where are you from?” “what do you do for a living?” “what are your hobbies?”, and go from there. Of course, don’t feel pressured to ask too many questions. If the conversation goes well, the other person will ask you questions, too.
6. Show Interest
Always respond to what people say with enthusiasm. “Oh really?” “That’s interesting.” And follow-up questions are great ways to make the other person happier about talking to you and to show you’re listening to them. No one likes someone who just responds with grunts and shows zero interest.
7. Make Eye Contact
This is to do with confidence again. If you stare at the ground or don’t look at someone, people can take it in all kinds of ways. Don’t forget that many other people are shy, too! Avoiding someone’s gaze can sends all kinds of negative messages, such as “he doesn’t like me”, “she isn’t interested in what I’m talking about”, or even “what’s his problem?”
A good trick is looking between someone’s eyes. It’s easier for those of you who feel shy, and people can’t tell the difference.
8. Smell Good
So engaging in great conversation and dressing well already compliments the senses of sight and sound, so how about smell?
Here are some great tips on smelling awesome.
- Bathe regularly. Deeply clean your armpits, private regions, and feet. Always wear freshly cleaned clothes and new underwear. (This may seem obvious, but you’d be surprised how many people don’t do this.)
- Find a perfume or cologne that is right for you. This doesn’t mean you have to invest in the latest expensive celebrity fragrance. Something gentle like lavender or vanilla (for women) is a good place to start, but don’t be afraid to be adventurous. You want a fragrance that really tells people who you are.
- Be sure to change it up every few days. People who wear the exact same fragrance daily tend to become immune to it, and therefore wear more and more.
- Don’t wear too much! Two sprays maximum should do it. Dab a little behind your ears and on your chest. The idea is to make them want more, and be inhaling deeply to catch your scent.
With these 8 great tips on how to be sexier, you’ll be attracting more people in no time! Let us know how you get on. After all, a healthy sex life is a great thing to have.
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