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5 Things You Should NEVER Do During a Blowjob or Handjob

Giving a blowjob or handjob is awesome. You give a guy you care about a lot of pleasure and warm him up for some action with you. It’s important that you both enjoy it, and you know the other person is enjoying it. Now that you know the 10 steps to giving a great blowjob, here are 5 things you should absolutely never do while pleasuring your man.

1. Going in With Dry Fingers

Rubbing a penis, especially the head, with dry fingers can be painful and cause some damage. Always always always keep your fingers, lips, and mouth nice and moist. Try adding a little spit or lubrication.

2. Being Too Rough

Unless he actually asks you to be rough, don’t squeeze too hard, move too fast or otherwise be violent with the penis. A man’s most private part is also his most sensitive and any forceful play can do damage. Ask him what he likes, and whether he’d like you to be a little rougher. All men are different.

3. Biting

Teeth have no place in a blowjob, whether that’s nibbling the balls, scraping your incisors during oral, or – worst of all – biting the foreskin. There may be rare cases of guys who do like a bit of teeth action during a blowjob, but it’s considerably rare and it’s important to always ask before you do any biting.

4. Saying “Hurry up”, “My arm’s tired” or “Are you almost done?”

It’s a turnoff for anyone to feel as if they’re being rushed, and if you’re giving off the vibe that you’re bored and wanting to quit, it’s going to make him feel the exact opposite of how you want him to feel. Enjoy the experience, learn and listen. Don’t behave as though you’re bored; it may actually take him even longer to finish.

5. Biting

Seriously. Don’t do it.

Keep in mind that the penis is a beautiful and sensitive thing that we should love and cherish gently. If he asks you to be rougher, that’s great! You can try some new things together. However, for now, especially if it’s the first time you’re pleasuring this guy with your mouth and hands, avoid doing the above.

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