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How to Give a Great Blowjob in 10 Easy Steps

Looking how to please your man with your mouth? A lot of people can make mistakes. The penis is a sensitive thing as well as beautiful and sacred, and it has to be handled with care. Here are 10 simple tips for giving a great blowjob.

1. Ask him what he likes

Before starting anything, run by him what he likes. All men are different. Some like their nipples to be touched. Some like a finger in the butt. Others can’t stand getting their balls touched. Check what he enjoys before starting to avoid any uncomfortable situations.

2. Touch him

Men liked to be caressed all over their bodies. Before you go anywhere near his penis, touch his face, neck, chest, nipples (if he’s into it), legs, stomach, and inner thighs. He’ll be rock hard before you get anywhere near it.

3. Take your time

Tease and take your time. Rushing isn’t sexy.

Take his penis gently between your fingers, smile up at him, and gently kiss and lick. Give a little more each time, and build it up to what he’s waiting for.

4. Start at the bottom

Slide your tongue from the bottom of the penis up to the top, where it is most sensitive. Swirl your tongue around the head and slowly take it into your mouth. Constrict your lips slightly so your mouth is tight, but not uncomfortably so, around the head.

5. Start slow, and adjust your speed

Take his penis into your mouth, making sure your lips are wet. With each stroke, go a little farther in, until you can take as much as you can. Start slowly, and adjust your speed. Go faster, go slower.

6. Listen to him

Ask him to tell you what he wants. Usually, with men, this isn’t too hard, and if he’d like you to change your speed or sdo something more or less often, he’ll let you know. However, it can’t hurt to give him some encouragement. Take a mental note of what he likes and doesn’t like, and follow his cues.

7. Don’t forget the balls

Those tender balls need some love, too. Try touching them softly and gauge his reaction. If he likes it, caress, lick, and suck gently on them. Go between the balls and the penis – never spend too much time on one area. If you keep him guessing, he’ll stay excited.

8. Stay wet

Make sure your mouth is wet throughout. If the penis is too dry, it can be painful for him. Add spit whenever you can, though avoid actual spitting; it can be a turnoff. Just moisten your mouth now and then. And remember, it’s all about the lips, not the tongue.

9. Tell him he can finish however he likes

This depends on your personal preference. However, if you don’t mind what he does when he finishes, tell him he can do it wherever he wants. He will love this, excite him, and help him climax and enjoy his orgasm.

10. Keep up the speed near the end

A male orgasm is just as important as a woman’s. As he’s having an orgasm, keep up the speed (unless he asks you not to – if you’re not sure, go back to step 1). Don’t grip too hard, but keep up a good speed until he’s finished. You don’t want to ruin a great blowjob by spoiling the climax.

So there you go – ten easy steps to giving an amazing blowjob. Listen to your man and take note of what he likes, explore his body and, most importantly, listen to him. He’ll be willing to return the favor in no time!

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